As a rule of thumb in getting to know men, I don't really take the initiative. I over-think things so much as to whether I might come across as too aggressive or bold, a flirt or a bitch. But realizing that nothing much has changed for the last 2 years, I decided to muster up my courage and risk it. I got nothing much to lose, right? Wrong! I lose my right to being feminine to the average men.

A REAL man take it as someone who is making it happen, and take the reins from there. An average man thinks that he should be the one making it happen first and actually secretly loathe you for doing it.(but what the hell, they will be clueless about you if you don't start anyways, right? But that's the thing, an average man has average thinking). Other men just becomes passive and go along with it, and give up their manly role to me without making a discussion about how i should be a lady instead and just smile and be pretty while they crack their minds trying to woo me.And then i get to lose interest in them and I'm back to square one. You know, i actually appreciate it ALOT if a guy can tell me and make me stay in my place for a while and ask me to shut up and let him do the chasing.  Or they can let me do it sometimes when they're out of ideas...