I really respect the fact that guys love the chase.They are confident.They woo the girl.They got the girl.Its manly,its what we expected them to do.But some guys just want the opposite.They want us to chase them.Its like some Alice in Wonderland game.These guys tempt us,making us feel he's so-god worthy of their time in our heads.Then they gave us cold shoulders and expect us to ask why and what's wrong. As you know, I usually just move on if it seems like I don't gain anything out of this.(In fact, no one does).It hurts badly of course but we do get over it somehow. And Life just seems more peaceful around again,with them not in our minds.

Then hey PRESTO, they just seem to appear right infront of our faces. At the most unexpected timing and places.Like if they were Jack(s)-in-the-box(es). Like as if they want us to take in consideration that they are NOT DONE YET with us. (Suprises like these make me ill.Really!Because my system isn't susceptible to react to suprises..)I don't remember that love has to be logical,but somehow the things we do for love,it as to be logical somehow!Might as well tell us.Tell us if we are just a game.And tell us if we ever meant more than that. Because no one wants to waste their time.And no one likes to be treated like a a puppet.

As much as the stuffs they say bout the 21st century and the girls nowadays do the chase and blah blah blah...I am still the old-school type of girl.I loved to be chased.I loved to be wooed.I loved the feeling of being 'owned'.I loved it when the guy is jealous.I loved it when the guy is protective.Because I know I'm a (young and wise.heh.)woman and I want the him to BE a man.

Be confident.

Be real.

Take control.

That's all I ask.

xoxo,

zimzim